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The dark secret of Anne Nolan



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Published Date:
11 March 2008
NOLAN Sisters star Anne Nolan today defended her decision to go public on the catalogue of sexual abuse she suffered as a child at her father Tommy's hands.
But she also confessed: "My sisters won't be reading the book. They have their memories of our father. I accept that. But this is my story."

News of the sensational claims, which will be revealed in her autobiography, Anne's Song, published later this month, have shaken Blackpool's entertainment fraternity.

Other members of the family refused to comment this week.

Father-of-eight Tommy Nolan senior, who died in 1998, was held in high regard as a tough but fair taskmaster who, with his wife Maureen, established the showbiz dynasty in the '60s.

The Nolan Sisters were a worldwide success through the '70s and '80s – touring with Frank Sinatra and at one point even outselling the Beatles.

The parents, known as the Sweetheart Singers, moved from Dublin to Blackpool in 1962.

The Nolan Sisters I'm In the Mood For Dancing later became a number one hit in the UK and international charts.

But in exposing the darkest secret at the heart of the clean-living clan regarded as showbiz royalty in the resort, Anne has blackened her late father's name and admits she has to live with it.

She says: "It's difficult but I'll live with it. I've lived with far worse. Abuse, breast cancer, my marriage breaking up. You either get on with it or go under."

Anne, who now works at the office of the Official Receiver, says she began writing her autobiography four to five years ago.

"I'd been working on it for some time. I read A Boy Called It and couldn't understand how people couldn't see how he was being abused, there were so many visible signs. In my case it was all concealed.

"Then I read autobiographies by bits of kids who really hadn't had a life and I thought I've had a more interesting life. So I decided to tell my story. And, like it or not, this is part of my story. What happened, happened."

She chose to open up on her private life after her divorce from former professional footballer Brian Wilson last summer and after her mother's death late last year, having suffered Alzheimer's for four years.

"This would have killed my mother otherwise. She loved my father."
Anne, who has signed an exclusive serialisation deal with a national Sunday newspaper, says she told her sisters of the abuse after her father's death. In 1998 he had the showbiz equivalent of a state funeral.

"I kept hearing what a great guy my father was and knew differently. There was this other side of him. And it wasn't just sexual abuse. He was very controlling. He killed stone-dead the love I should have felt for him. My sisters were very shocked when I told them.

"It hasn't killed my faith. I still pray. But I never confessed what was happening. I never let what happened spoil everything but it's always there. I've still had a fantastic life."

Anne says her strict Catholic upbringing was blighted by repeated sexual abuse by the father her younger sisters Denise, Linda, Maureen, Bernadette and Coleen trusted implicitly and "adore" to this day. They also have two brothers Tommy and Brian.

Anne, the oldest sister, believes she was singled out because she was the last to join the clan in Blackpool.

"I had been in hospital for a year and a half with suspected rheumatic fever so couldn't come with the family to Blackpool when they moved."

She says she was 11 when the abuse started, after being left alone with her dad and her younger sister Bernie (Tommy and Maureen's second youngest daughter) who "wasn't yet two."

It ended when she was 15 or 16. At one point Anne claims he suggested they run away together and set up as man and wife.

"I felt real revulsion. I never spoke of it to others. I felt in some way it was my fault. I was a child. I was very innocent. I didn't know what was happening to me. I never told my mother about it."

But she believes the skeleton in the family closet ultimately undermined her 27-year marriage to Brian.

"He was the first person I ever told. We had been married 24 years before things started to go wrong."

Anne says Brian put the break-up down to the guilt he felt - at placing their two daughters at risk by leaving them with her father.

"He said he could not live with the guilt that we both placed our daughters in jeopardy by leaving them with my dad to babysit.

"In fact we would leave our daughters with my mother but if she went out, my dad would look after them. Nothing happened to them. I think it began and ended with me."

Anne says their divorce came through last summer on what would have been their 28th wedding anniversary.

"I found it very hard to cope with. I know people get married and get divorced all the time but I got married, in the Catholic church, and I said my vows and meant them.

"It was a difficult time and I became suicidal when my marriage broke up. I still loved my husband but I think Brian just fell out of love with me."

Anne says there is nobody else in her life today. She has also denied rumours of a rift within the family created by her decision to reveal the abuse.

"I am still very close to my sisters. A couple have said they won't read the book. They loved my dad and don't want to think about him as being that kind of person.

"But they haven't put any pressure on me not to say what happened. I have my own memories of childhood and what happened was a massive part of my life.

"My daughters, Amy, who's 27, and Alex, who's 20, are there for me, too. They now see their grandfather with different eyes. And people keep telling me I've been so brave but I don't see it being brave at all.

"But I would say this – if there's anyone out there now, going through what I went through as a child, please don't keep it to yourself, but tell someone. Don't suffer in silence."

* Anne's Song, by Anne Nolan with Richard Barber, is published by Arrow Books on March 27, at £12.99

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  • Last Updated: 11 March 2008 12:21 PM
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Danny M,

11/03/2008 12:51:10
Does anyone else find it rather callous that she's making these claims afer her father has been dead ten years? It's kind of hard for him to defend himself now, isn't it? Of course, it's good timing on her behlf, what with the autobiography being published later this month aand everythig.
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john roberts ,

11/03/2008 22:36:05
Its an OBSCENE PR stunt! Agreed he has no way of defending himself.

No doubt this "book" will be an interesting piece of fiction.

This will hopefully backfire, and no copies of this fiction will be sold.
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SATCHY,

west mids 12/03/2008 18:55:59
no body could make up the fact they have been abused it would be callous and a disgrace to the name of her father. A lot of people are coming forward now adays to tell the truth about their abuse and it has happened alot. Tell the truth Anne no one will think any the less of you. SorryJohn but i will buy the book because i like to read the truth about people it opens your eyes to real life aS YOURS SHOULD BE!
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john roberts ,

12/03/2008 19:38:57
Satchy, then you are the gullible type that will make Anne lots of money.

Why these allegations now?

look at the timing , 1 month from a book release.

Get real.

He isnt here to defend himself.Why not do it years ago to obtain justice through the courts?

The "truth" is in essence Anne's uncorrobrated allegation, against which her father has no means to answer or defend himself.Its a sick PR stunt and Anne is a disgrace to all those victims who do seek justice and not filthy lucre fortunes via trial by media to prop up her failed life and career.
Rememeber this woman let her kids in the prescence of ther "abuser" father, what does that make her then?

I rest my case. Save yourself some money and go and buy some toilet paper, its of more use.If you do buy the book, wear gloves, the presence of so much excrement makes such measures advisable.
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SATCHY,

west mids 13/03/2008 13:15:43
John YOU really believe that she could make up such a story and suffer the consequences her familly who are close nit would give her. They may even disown her for such allegations. Sorry but if you are correct then yes its bad but i can't see it myself.
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SATCHY,

west mids 13/03/2008 19:35:33
People just don't make that kind of stuff up and if they do its a disgrace against their parents and familly. Only Anne knows the real truth and i hope its correct for her sake or theres a place in hell for her if she is telling lies.
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john roberts ,

13/03/2008 20:00:27
Satchy when you look at the facts and circumstances, her claims lack credibility and yes making up allegations of this nature is nothing new in our sick world, especially to make money and grab attention.

Her father built her career so she didnt do too bad did she?

No shes got nothing, all that has changed.

Without any independent evidence her claims have no substance and her motives for making them are questionable,of course its to sell a book!

Her father is innocent until proven otherwise and taht ahs to be beyond a reasonable doubt.

How would you like claims like that to be made against a member of your family who has NO right of reply?

Its so easy for her to do these things.

She should know better, she should have been advised to shut her mouth unless she had supporting evidence, simple as.

If she has evidence then that casts the whole issue in a different light, until then I will not believe her period.
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mojo10,

liverpool 18/03/2008 01:54:19
I'm with you satchy, of course it happened, she is a woman of faith, and it takes a lot of courage to reveal something like this. she risked everything. as for the timing of the allogations, well of course she is going to use them to publise the book as it is in the book, and that is what you do! i have heard the other girls over the years say he was a hard dad on them. and of course anne did the right thing to wait till her mum and dad were dead.Lulu did a similar thing talking about her parents, they way they use to fight each other. i take my hat off to her and wish her all the luck in the future.
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john roberts ,

20/03/2008 20:14:27
"I'm with you satchy, of course it happened"

Evidence???

The earth is flat, so say I.
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SATCHY,

west mids 21/03/2008 17:29:43
Sorry John but where abuse is concerned unless it is currently taking place there will never be any usable evidence. it's not like anyones gonna admit they did it even if they are still alive are they? You got to make a choice on who you believe and thats that.
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